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Brahmacharya
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Sexual pleasure is not reduced only to a very pleasant but very short sensation. It can be more then that and it is possible only through understanding and accomplishing permanently lovemaking with continence.
What is continence?
Sexual continence, or Brahmacharya, implies sexual contact without ejaculation while attaining an endless number of orgasms by both lovers (at the same time or separately). Sexual continence assumes fully conscious control over the sexual functions of the man or woman. Hence, this method to live the erotic act does not finalize through ejaculation for the man or through explosive discharge of the creative specific potential for the woman. Being a superior form of eroticism, sexual continence permits the biological transmutation of the creator sexual potential into superior forms of vital, psychic, mental, spiritual energies, gearing some ineffable inner sublimation processes. |
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Brahmacharya
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Sexual continence... Without it…you cannot bear up any more! Because it lasts longer, is more beautiful and it is yours until old age!
…How wonderful it is to make love! ... Yes, but…to make love, not sex. Sex is pleasant also, but love makes us feel and even become kind, beautiful, generous and powerful – maybe just like gods. It is not said in vain that, when love is infinite, the impossible easily becomes possible.
But we might ask ourselves, what is the difference between love and sex? There is, of course, quite a big difference, and this is precisely the feeling of love. It is wonderful to love and be loved, but a peak of love is to make love. That is, when love is missing, even if sexual attraction exists, we are talking about sex and when love is also present, making love is a wonderful accomplishment and a peak of love. |
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Brahmacharya
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 Sexual continence, or Brahmacharya, involves a total awareness and control during lovemaking. This implies that the couple will experience complete union with the possibility of reaching many orgasms. This kind of love fusion does not end with ejaculation for men nor an explosive discharge of sexual fluids for women.
This technique is also known as coitus reservatus (refraining from ejaculation) or karezza. Both lovers, the man and the woman, have desire but totally refrain from reaching orgasm with the resulting discharging of sexual energy. The man allows orgasm with ejaculation only when both lovers plan to have a baby.
This kind of sexual fusion was named by Dr. Alice Stockham “coitus reservatus” or “sublimated coitus”.
The Karezza technique also recommends taking complete breaks when experiencing intense erotic pleasure. During these breaks the erectile penis should remain immobile in the woman’s vagina, while the lovers enjoy the mutual transfer of erotic energetic fluids.
Dr. Stockham stated that through this technique one achieves youthfulness, longevity, and an increase in vitality. The control of sexual energy for women is often spontaneous, and only in rare cases requires minimal training. However for men this control and the halting of ejaculation for long periods (weeks, months, years) requires continuous and diligent training.
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Read more... [What is Sexual Continence?]
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